The Divorce

Without ever eliciting it, I got the story of the divorce, which rests aside possible worries.

He was young, and not active in the church at the time. Neither was she. They had a civil wedding. They never had children because he knew they weren't ready for it, and had a bad feeling any time she brought it up. He really wants children in his future, though. I think he said the marraige was four years long or so - and although it wasn't the greatest marraige he would remain loyal to her, unless she had an affair. She did. He had a difficult time after the divorce, went through therapy, loves the direction his life is headed - doing what he always wanted to do, active in church, and also appreciates where his ex-wife is now. (She changed a lot as well, and is now sealed in the temple.)

So there's that.